Across patriarchal cultures, “disobedient” women have always been viewed as a grave threat to the status quo. What has shifted is how their rebellion is interpreted—and how harshly it is punished. Once feared and suppressed, these women are now more often cast as empowered (yet still feared). In the U.S., this change gained momentum in the 20th century, with advances in women’s rights and the emergence of the middle-class housewife. The exponential increase of female authors didn’t hurt, either.

This month, I’m highlighting works that trace this shift and suggest that anyone dismissing and disrespecting the “common” housewife does so at their peril.

The House Wife
The Housewife - Natalie Barelli

"A deliciously dark novel about a woman who married the man of her dreams, only for him to become her worst nightmare."

The Book Club for Troublesome Women
The Book Club for Troublesome Women - Marie Bostwick

"1960's suburban housewives, feeling guilty about their discontent, form a book club that opens them up to new possibilities."

Recipe for a Perfect Wife
Recipe for a Perfect Wife - Karma Brown

"A woman finds a cookbook buried in the basement and becomes captivated with the cookbook's previous owner, a 1950s housewife."

Yesteryear
Yesteryear - Caro Claire Burke

“Internet sensation Natalie is thrust from her 2026 stylized "traditional lifestyle" back in time to experience real life in the 19th century."

The Mad Wife
The Mad Wife - Meagan Church

"After the birth of her second daughter, Lulu's life as an ideal 1950's housewife begins to unravel and her fractured mental state leads her down a dark path."

The Hours
The Hours - Michael Cunningham

"Traces a single day in the life of three women: Virginia Woolf writing Mrs. Dalloway in the 1920's; a 1940s housewife reading Woolf's novel; and a modern woman planning a party."

Forbidden Notebook
Forbidden Notebook - Alba de Céspedes

"An exquisitely crafted portrayal of domestic life centered around the inner life of a dissatisfied housewife, living in postwar Rome."

American Housewife
American Housewife - Helen Ellis

"A sharp, funny, delightfully unhinged collection of stories set in the dark world of American domesticity."

Shadow Tag
Shadow Tag - Louise Erdrich

"Chronicles the emotional war between a Native American woman trying to finish her dissertation while raising three children, and her exacting husband."

Mrs. March
Mrs. March - Virginia Feito

"When someone suggests that the protagonist in her husband's latest book is based on her, Mrs. March questions everything she believes about her husband."

The Women's Room
The Women's Room - Marilyn French

"A modern classic that offers piercing insight into the social norms accepted so blindly and revered so completely."

The Yellow Wallpaper
The Yellow Wallpaper - Charlotte Perkins Gilman

"Set in the late 19th century, a woman whose husband (and doctor) confines her to isolation, and a rest cure descends into madness."

Tender
Tender - Beth Hetland (Graphic Novel)

"A psychological thriller about a woman obsessed with her vision for a picture-perfect, curated life spirals into delusion and horrific body horror."

Deadly Housewives
Deadly Housewives - Christine Matthews (ed.)

"A mystery anthology based on the premise that there's more to suburban housewives than meets the eye."

Dept. of Speculation
Dept. of Speculation - Jenny Offill

"Muses on the consuming, capacious experience of maternal love, and the near total destruction of the self that ensues from it and the friction between domestic life and the demands of art."

Trad Wife
Trad Wife - Saratoga Schaefer

"A Rosemary's Baby for the digital age as a ‘traditional wife’ influencer allows a demonic creature to impregnate her."

Baby Teeth
Baby Teeth - Zoje Stage

"Daddy is the only person who understands her, but Mommy stands in her way, and she’ll try any trick she can think of to get rid of her. Ideally for good."

The Stepford Wives
The Stepford Wives - Ira Levin

"The move to beautiful Stepford seems almost too good to be true. It is. For behind the town's idyllic facade lies a terrible secret..."

Dearest
Dearest - Jacquie Walters

"A new mom in need of help opens her door to her long-estranged mother—only to invite something much darker inside."

Nightbitch
Nightbitch - Rachel Yoder

"At home full-time with her two-year-old son, an artist finds she is struggling. One night when her child will not sleep, she gains sharper canines, new patches of hair, and new appetites."

Summaries sourced from publishers' materials.

August Two-Minute Review

A Doll's HouseA Doll's House - Henrik Ibsen

Written in 1879, Ibsen’s A Doll’s House was ahead of its time in exposing the restrictions, infantilization, and psychological damage endured by middle-class married women. The play stirred controversy because wives were typically portrayed either as idealized figures, morally corruptible, or undeveloped characters. Nora’s deliberate rejection of her roles as wife and mother marked a radical departure. Although the play is often seen as a precursor to feminism, it is notable that it was written by an upper-class man. Later works such as Kate Chopin’s The Awakening and Charlotte Perkins Gilman’s The Yellow Wallpaper show women writers taking up similar themes, though female characters breaking free from their subjugated roles was not positively framed as emancipation until the 1950s.


DVDs in Our Collection:

Anna Karenina

Diary of a Mad Housewife

Far From Heaven

Fried Green Tomatoes

Gaslight

The Hours

Mr. Mom (It's only fair!)

Revolutionary Road

The Stepford Wives

Hop on the Holds List

The Hollow (A Harry Bosch Novel) - Michael Connelly

Chain Reaction - Lee Child

The Witch - Freida McFadden

Miss Wolcott's Ghost - Louise Penny

All In - David Baldacci

Quote of the Month:

"Few tasks are more like the torture of Sisyphus than housework, with its endless repetition: the clean becomes soiled, the soiled is made clean, over and over, day after day." — Simone de Beauvoir

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Recent Reads

I have recently finished reading The Golden Notebook by Doris Lessing and Codebreakers by Stella Sands. I also just finished listening to Normal People by Sally Rooney.

I am currently reading The Secrets We Hide by Karin Slaughter and Parade by Rachel Cusk. I am also listening to the audiobook of Yesteryear by Caro Claire Burke.

Do you have a favorite genre or author - or ones that you tend to avoid? - Drop me a line: [email protected].

Until next time: Be safe, be well, and be well-read!

Joelle


So, who am I, anyway? I am a resident of West Groton, with a husband, four mostly-grown children, a fluffy Samoyed, and a kitten - all of which keep my vacuum well-employed. I am currently working part-time at the Groton Public Library and writing monthly reviews for Booklist Magazine. In a former life, I was a Director of PR/Marketing at a high-tech consulting firm. My BA is in Psychology, but most of my time was spent in college earning a Concentration in the Novel. That is all to say that I make no claims at being an expert of any kind, and my thoughts, opinions. and mistakes are solely my own. I am just a person whose passion for books has continued to grow from the moment I was first able to clutch and gnaw on them. I have been devouring them ever since.

Aug 01, 2026 / Joelle M Egan